How do you explain death?

Death is rarely an easy topic to discuss for anyone. Whether we are addressing the loss of a life of an elderly person, that of a child, or even a family pet, the feeling of loss is intensified when the word "death" is said aloud.

People often ask us how to explain death to children. Throughout the years we've found the best way is to be honest with them. You know, better than anyone, the attitudes and belief system of your child and they know when adults are truthful. An honest answer, such as, "I really don't know, what do you think?" is better than making up words to form an answer or telling a lie.

People shouldn't use terms like "went to sleep" because children are impressionable and they might fear that they too might go to sleep and not wake up. When uncertainty arises, turn to the professionals as we have numerous brochures to help adults and even coloring books for children to help ease these difficult moments.

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